Noted T.V. personality, chef, owner of Bizarre Foods, Andrew Zimmern believes that a good recipe for kitchen or life depends on in-depth detail. He says “If you find twenty on-line recipes for a pound cake, go with the recipe that even describes the size of the pan to be used. The person who confidently gives the tiniest of the detail has been there, done that”.
SPICE is such a detailed recipe to live a life full of meaning where we do justice to all the predominant roles that we play.
SPICE is not about how to get rich. It is about how to get real.
SPICE is ‘embracing your reality’ in total. Embrace the professional pod, the partner pod, the parent pod, and the person pod in you, all at once to create a life where none of these pods clamor for attention. They coexist in the space of all genders. If this coexistence and balanced inner innovation won’t take place, the existence of families will be in jeopardy. Happiness and mindfulness will become obsolete.
In this hyper-connected world, let us use all the ‘pods’ of our personality to cruise through the Hyperloop of life. The convergence of 4 Ps should be the motto of a holistic and heroic life.
Dig deep in each P to pick up the pebbles of purpose and action, the why and the how of your role.
Go to the professional piece and ask,
“Why am I doing what I am doing?”
“How am I going to reach the purpose?”
“What actions do I take to reach the purpose?”
“What I do not do?”
Dive deep into the Partnerial piece and ask,
“Why am I partnering with this person?”
“Is this out of love, need, convenience, respect, conditioning (social pressure), or mutual benefit?”
“How do I intend to make this work?”
“What do I do and what don’t I do to keep the partnership going from strength to strength?”
Dwell deep into the parental piece and ask,
“Why am I getting into this longest-term commitment?”
“What is the purpose?”
“How am I going to prepare for the parental stint in life?”
“What do I intend to do and what will I not do to make it work?”
Dab deep in the ‘Person’ piece to sum up the question,
“Who do I want to be?”
“Why do I want to be that?”
“How do I be the real me?”
This is a “↓ dig deep inside” action to be taken by all the Ps inside us.
Then, there is a “↖↗↖↗ holding hands horizontally” action to be taken by all the Ps, creating the hyphenated connection. The hyphen symbolizes being equal in a hierarchy-less environment. All the Ps should be connected but none of them takes center stage or dominates the rest. This is what we need to achieve.